Sunday, we celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary—a milestone that still feels surreal to say out loud.

Twenty-nine years of love, heartache, and everything in between.

Five children.

A small zoo of pets.

A long list of hairstyles (some I still stand by… others, not so much 😄).

And a lifetime's worth of change.

Marriage has been hard, life-giving, sad, and sweet—sometimes all in the same season. We've walked through grief, loss, anxiety, fear, and moments that shook us to our core. But we've also experienced joy, celebrated victories, created unforgettable memories, and built a family and love that's deeper than I ever could have imagined.

Looking back, I've thought a lot about what I'd tell that younger version of me, the bride full of hope and dreams but not yet seasoned by time and experience. If I could go back and whisper into her ear, these are the truths I would share:

Pray Together

Not just before meals or in crisis, but regularly. Out loud. Even when it's awkward. Pr...